{"id":15245,"date":"2016-05-20T20:40:23","date_gmt":"2016-05-20T16:40:23","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/bodhi.name\/ro\/?page_id=15245"},"modified":"2016-05-20T20:40:23","modified_gmt":"2016-05-20T16:40:23","slug":"prefata","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/bodhi.name\/ro\/home\/selectie-2005-calea-spre-o-constiinta-lucida\/prefata\/","title":{"rendered":"Prefa\u0163\u0103"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\u00cemi spune Bodhi.<\/p>\n<p>Aceast\u0103 carte este o c\u0103l\u0103uz\u0103 practic\u0103, \u00een ea sunt expuse metode, urmarea sincer\u0103 \u015fi perseverent\u0103 a c\u0103rora \u00eel va aduce pe orice om, pe calea cea mai scurt\u0103 \u015fi cea mai clar\u0103, la starea de a fi liber de suferin\u0163e (emo\u0163ii negative, concep\u0163ii false, dorin\u0163e mecanice, senza\u0163ii nepl\u0103cute), la \u00eenceputul unei vie\u0163i cu totul noi, p\u0103truns\u0103 de descoperiri, percep\u0163ii revelatoare (PR).<\/p>\n<p>Cartea e adaptat\u0103 la via\u0163a modern\u0103 \u015fi con\u0163ine o expunere destul de am\u0103nun\u0163it\u0103, deoarece eu nu doresc doar s\u0103-i trezesc cititorului un aflux emo\u0163ional, dup\u0103 care ar urma refluxul \u015fi revenirea la via\u0163a sumbr\u0103 de mai \u00eenainte, ci vreau s\u0103-i ar\u0103t cu precizie calea spre percep\u0163iile revelatoare.<\/p>\n<p>Sarcina-minimum este de a atinge a\u015fa o stare, care ar permite ca, \u00een momentul mor\u0163ii, s\u0103 se p\u0103streze luciditatea con\u015ftiin\u0163ei, ceea ce v\u0103 va da posibilitatea s\u0103 continua\u0163i practica \u015fi \u00een st\u0103rile dintre na\u015fteri \u015fi \u00een na\u015fterile urm\u0103toare f\u0103r\u0103 \u00eentreruperi, f\u0103r\u0103 ca s\u0103 aluneca\u0163i \u00een obscuritate, afl\u00e2ndu-v\u0103 \u00een manifest\u0103ri continue de PR, \u00eentr-o stare liber\u0103 de suferin\u0163\u0103. Este greu s\u0103 exprimi ad\u00e2ncimea abisului care-l desparte pe omul care a realizat aceast\u0103 stare de oamenii obi\u015fnui\u0163i.<\/p>\n<p>\u00cen 2000, c\u00e2nd am \u00eenceput s\u0103 scriu aceast\u0103 carte, speram c\u0103 nu fac ni\u015fte eforturi zadarnice, c\u0103 ea va rezona cu cineva, f\u0103c\u00e2ndu-l \u201es\u0103 recunoasc\u0103\u201d tocmai aceea cu ce ar vrea el s\u0103-i fie plin\u0103 via\u0163a. Nu \u015ftiam c\u00e2nd \u015fi cum anume se va \u00eent\u00e2mpla acest lucru. C\u0103tre anul 2005 cartea a fost citit\u0103, integral sau par\u0163ial, de mii de oameni, c\u00e2teva zeci din ei au fost pasiona\u0163i \u00een a\u015fa m\u0103sur\u0103, \u00eenc\u00e2t nu-\u015fi mai imagineaz\u0103 revenirea la cultivarea suferin\u0163elor. \u00cemi dau perfect de bine seama c\u0103 abia peste o mie sau dou\u0103 mii de ani cartea mea va deveni solicitat\u0103, iar p\u00e2n\u0103 atunci doar oameni aparte vor dori s\u0103 devin\u0103 fiin\u0163e libere. Anume pentru ei e scris\u0103 aceast\u0103 carte \u2013 pentru cei care vor s\u0103 devin\u0103 c\u0103l\u0103tori \u00een lumea percep\u0163iilor revelatoare fie acum, fie peste 20, fie peste 2000 de ani.<\/p>\n<p>\u00cens\u0103\u015fi existen\u0163a c\u0103r\u0163ii mele le treze\u015fte multor contemporani o atitudine negativ\u0103 \u2013 de la scepticism moderat p\u00e2n\u0103 la ur\u0103 \u00eenver\u015funat\u0103. Este vorba \u015fi despre oamenii care continu\u0103 s\u0103 fie poseda\u0163i de emo\u0163ii negative (or, eu ofer o metod\u0103 direct\u0103 de \u00eenl\u0103turare a lor), \u015fi despre cei \u00eempotmoli\u0163i \u00een nenum\u0103rate dogme (doar eu ofer o metod\u0103 direct\u0103 de spulberare a oric\u0103ror dogme, a tot ce nu se sprijin\u0103 pe experien\u0163a personal\u0103; o metod\u0103 de dezvoltare a unei g\u00e2ndiri lucide \u015fi libere), \u015fi despre cei care se consider\u0103 adep\u0163i ai oric\u0103rei religii (eu doar v\u0103 dau o metod\u0103 care-l conduce pe orice om spre percep\u0163ii revelatoare ce nu depind de institute religioase, zei \u015fi al\u0163i intermediari), \u015fi despre cei care se cred ezoterici (or, toate \u015ftiin\u0163ele \u201eezoterice\u201d afirm\u0103 c\u0103 drumul spre luminare este inimaginabil de lung \u015fi anevoios, iar eu expun o metodologie foarte simpl\u0103 \u015fi inteligibil\u0103, care-i permite p\u00e2n\u0103 \u015fi celui mai sumbru om s\u0103 se elibereze de suferin\u0163e, continu\u00e2ndu-\u015fi apoi calea de fiin\u0163\u0103 liber\u0103 doar dup\u0103 c\u00e2\u0163iva ani de munc\u0103 insistent\u0103) etc., etc. Pe \u201eezoterici\u201d \u00eei irit\u0103, mai ales, faptul c\u0103 eu \u00eensumi sunt un \u201eparvenit\u201d: nu am diplom\u0103 de licen\u0163\u0103, nu am absolvit careva \u201e\u015fcoli secrete\u201d, nu am \u00eenv\u0103\u0163at de la nimeni, nu m\u0103 refer la somit\u0103\u0163i, nu fac trimiteri la scripturi sacre, dar, cu toate acestea, propun o cale direct\u0103 spre Con\u015ftiin\u0163a lucid\u0103, cale pe care am g\u0103sit-o singur \u2013 prin munc\u0103 asidu\u0103, prin aspira\u0163ie sincer\u0103 spre claritate, spre a fi liber de suferin\u0163e. Eu nu posed scrisori de acreditare ce mi-ar confirma \u00eemputernicirile de a propune aceast\u0103 cale, ci ac\u0163ionez doar \u00een temeiul dorin\u0163ei bucuriei \u015fi al experien\u0163ei mele \u015fi experien\u0163ei altor practican\u0163i.<\/p>\n<p>Au fost scrise o sumedenie de c\u0103r\u0163i \u201e\u00een\u0163elepte\u201d, dar&#8230; dup\u0103 lectura fiec\u0103reia din ele apar cel pu\u0163in trei \u00eentreb\u0103ri:<\/p>\n<p>1) Ce trebuie s\u0103 fac concret? Cum anume? Cum voi dep\u0103\u015fi obstacolele mici, dar care, de multe ori, devin bariere de netrecut?<\/p>\n<p>2) Dac\u0103 \u00een carte se con\u0163ine un sfat, o recomandare despre aceea ce \u015fi cum trebuie f\u0103cut, apare a doua \u00eentrebare: pentru ce? Care-i rostul ac\u0163iunii cutare sau cutare? Cum pot s\u0103 fiu sigur\u0103 c\u0103, dup\u0103 ce voi consuma o groaz\u0103 de timp pentru mari eforturi, voi ob\u0163ine drept rezultat ceva atr\u0103g\u0103tor pentru mine?<\/p>\n<p>3) Cum pot s\u0103 \u00een\u0163eleg ce trebuie s\u0103 fac mai departe? Trebuie s\u0103 fiu legat\u0103 rigid de sursa de instruc\u0163iuni?<\/p>\n<p>Cartea mea con\u0163ine r\u0103spunsul la prima \u00eentrebare, iar cea de-a doua decade de la sine, \u00eentruc\u00e2t, \u00een primul r\u00e2nd, depun\u00e2nd eforturi, te c\u0103l\u0103uze\u015fti nu de o sugestie, de o credin\u0163\u0103, ci doar de o dorin\u0163\u0103 a bucuriei anticipate, a\u015fadar, ac\u0163iunile \u00ee\u0163i trezesc pl\u0103cere chiar acum, independent de rezultatele lor.<\/p>\n<p>\u00cen cel de-al doilea r\u00e2nd, rezultatele eforturilor se v\u0103d imediat \u015fi tu te delectezi chiar acum \u2013 dac\u0103 tocmai acum ai \u00eenl\u0103turat emo\u0163ia negativ\u0103, apoi \u00een acela\u015fi moment ai sim\u0163it un impuls de percep\u0163ii revelatoare.<\/p>\n<p>\u00cen ceea ce prive\u015fte a treia \u00eentrebare, apoi, practic\u00e2nd ceea ce-\u0163i propun, devii o busol\u0103 pentru tine \u00eens\u0103\u0163i, ob\u0163ii o claritate deplin\u0103 \u00een ceea ce prive\u015fte metodele, tr\u0103ie\u015fti dorin\u0163e \u00eembucur\u0103toare \u015fi alte percep\u0163ii revelatoare ce te conduc nemijlocit spre st\u0103ri atractive pentru tine. Calea mea const\u0103 \u00een \u00eenl\u0103turarea direct\u0103 a suferin\u0163elor \u015fi \u00een cultivarea aspira\u0163iei spre percep\u0163iile revelatoare. ESTE POSIBIL S\u0102 NU MAI FII CUPRINS DE EMO\u0162II NEGATIVE \u2013 anume s\u0103 nu le tr\u0103ie\u015fti, s\u0103 nu le \u00eencerci, dar nu s\u0103 le suprimi, s\u0103 le \u00eendrept\u0103\u0163e\u015fti, s\u0103 \u201eprime\u015fti totul a\u015fa cum este\u201d.<\/p>\n<p>\u00cen locul fanteziilor despre aceea c\u0103, undeva \u00een Himalaia, sub \u00eendrumarea unui \u00eenv\u0103\u0163\u0103tor \u00een\u0163elept tu ai putea s\u0103 \u00eenaintezi spre o con\u015ftiin\u0163\u0103 lucid\u0103, \u0163i se propune s\u0103 \u00eencepi o c\u0103l\u0103torie a con\u015ftiin\u0163ei, o c\u0103l\u0103torie infinit\u0103, captivant\u0103 \u015fi plin\u0103 de bucurie, s-o \u00eencepi chiar aici \u015fi chiar acum.<\/p>\n<p>Po\u0163i s\u0103 fii o fiin\u0163\u0103 foarte sumbr\u0103 \u2013 s\u0103 ur\u0103\u015fti, s\u0103 fii gelos, s\u0103 invidiezi, s\u0103 dore\u015fti moartea cuiva, s\u0103 fii intolerant, avid \u2013 oricum. Totu\u015fi, exist\u0103 o ie\u015fire, dac\u0103 ai dorin\u0163\u0103 s\u0103 fii \u00eencercat de percep\u0163ii atr\u0103g\u0103toare pentru tine \u015fi ai dorin\u0163a de a face pa\u015fi practici. Dac\u0103 te-ai pomenit \u00eentr-o atare situa\u0163ie, d\u0103 dovad\u0103 de o atitudine constructiv\u0103 fa\u0163\u0103 de ea. Nu conteaz\u0103 de ce s-a \u00eent\u00e2mplat a\u015fa. Este necesar s\u0103 \u00een\u0163elegi ce-i de f\u0103cut acum \u015fi s\u0103 \u00eencepi a face.<\/p>\n<p>Omul occidental deja este un pasionat: de dragul ma\u015finii, apartamentului \u015fi scopului de \u201ea fi \u00een r\u00e2nd cu lumea\u201d el este gata s\u0103-\u015fi amaneteze via\u0163a, el suprim\u0103 tot ce-i viu \u00een el de dragul unor scopuri ce i-au fost impuse \u00een mod artificial. Zeci de ani, doar de dragul convenien\u0163elor, se men\u0163ine existen\u0163a c\u0103s\u0103toriei, de dragul unei ma\u015fini \u015fi al unui apartament prestigios po\u0163i s\u0103 mergi zi la zi, timp de zeci de ani, la oficiu, f\u0103r\u0103 a-\u0163i da r\u0103gaz. Omul occidental contemporan \u015ftie a se impune pe sine \u00eensu\u015fi. El e un ascet, dar acest ascetism este denaturat, pocit, c\u0103ci oamenii nu dep\u0103\u015fesc obstacolele spre tr\u0103irea dorin\u0163ei bucuriei, ci tocmai invers \u2013 ei \u00ee\u015fi \u00eenving \u00eens\u0103\u015fi aceast\u0103 dorin\u0163\u0103. Omul contemporan e un pasionat, dar scopul acestei pasiuni este absurd, impus din exterior \u015fi-l conduce spre suferin\u0163e ne\u00eentrerupte.<\/p>\n<p>Uneori apare o senza\u0163ie deosebit\u0103 de \u201erecunoa\u015ftere\u201d, c\u00e2nd parc\u0103 te atingi de ceva ce ai vrut s\u0103-\u0163i spui demult \u0163ie \u00eens\u0103\u0163i, \u00een ceea ce ai vrut s\u0103 crezi, \u00een ce se resimte un adev\u0103r tensionat, o veridicitate fundamental\u0103 \u015fi atunci \u00ee\u0163i vine mai u\u015for s\u0103 faci efortul, se g\u0103sesc \u015fi for\u0163ele, \u015fi \u00eencrederea necesar\u0103. Presiunea lumii exterioare este, uneori, prea mare \u015fi po\u0163i s\u0103 \u00eencetezi a mai crede c\u0103 se poate tr\u0103i altfel, sim\u0163i altfel, c\u0103 via\u0163a \u00een genere poate fi alta, o via\u0163\u0103 adev\u0103rat\u0103. Scriu pentru ca cineva, citind, s\u0103 \u00een\u0163eleag\u0103: exist\u0103 posibilitatea unei atare vie\u0163i, e un deziderat realizabil, a\u015fa tr\u0103ie\u015fte acest om cu totul obi\u015fnuit, cu dou\u0103 m\u00e2ini, cu dou\u0103 picioare \u015fi un cap, tot a\u015fa tr\u0103iesc \u015fi al\u0163i oameni care-i urmeaz\u0103 practica. Prin urmare, a\u015fa ceva e posibil pentru oricine tinde sincer spre aceea\u015fi via\u0163\u0103. Eu nu m\u0103 sfiiesc s\u0103 m\u0103 ar\u0103t cu degetul \u015fi s\u0103 spun: prive\u015fte, eu tr\u0103iesc altfel, eu tr\u0103iesc uite-a\u015fa, \u015fi tu po\u0163i s\u0103 tr\u0103ie\u015fti astfel, \u015fi \u00een fa\u0163a ta e deschis totul, dar scuip\u0103 pe tot ce \u0163i s-a insuflat \u2013 c\u0103 e\u015fti slab\u0103, proast\u0103, p\u0103c\u0103toas\u0103, c\u0103 nu ai dreptate etc., c\u0103 \u201ee\u015fti obligat\u0103\u201d s\u0103 faci cutare sau cutare lucru etc. D\u0103-\u0163i seama c\u0103 tu po\u0163i s\u0103 realizezi practica ce duce spre o c\u0103l\u0103torie \u00een lumea percep\u0163iilor revelatoare.<\/p>\n<p>Cartea mea este destinat\u0103 tuturor celor care sunt de acord cu mine \u00een urm\u0103toarea apreciere: orice cale nu ai alege pentru tine, \u00een orice caz, eliberarea de cele mai grave \u00eentrist\u0103ri, obscurit\u0103\u0163i (emo\u0163ii negative, concep\u0163ii mecanice, dorin\u0163e mecanice) vor contribui la \u00eenaintarea ta pe calea pe care ai ales-o.<\/p>\n<p>Deja se isc\u0103 de pe undeva oameni care cunosc \u201epe din\u0103untru\u201d via\u0163a, practica mea, comunicarea cu al\u0163i practican\u0163i, oameni care denigreaz\u0103 \u00een orice mod totul ce \u0163ine de mine \u015fi de practica mea, altern\u00e2nd \u00eencerc\u0103rile de a face o critic\u0103 ra\u0163ional\u0103 cu minciuna sfruntat\u0103. Au s\u0103 mai apar\u0103 \u015fi al\u0163i \u201ecunosc\u0103tori\u201d \u015fi comentatori ai practicii c\u0103ii directe, care vor jongla termenii, vor \u201epreciza\u201d \u00eenv\u0103\u0163\u0103tura mea, vor \u201eameliora-o\u201d, vor \u201eexplica-o\u201d, vor critica-o cu arogan\u0163\u0103, \u00ee\u015fi vor oferi ajutorul altor practican\u0163i, afirm\u00e2nd c\u0103 ei \u00eemi sunt discipoli, parteneri de practic\u0103 sau simpli practican\u0163i care \u00een\u0163eleg at\u00e2t de bine totul ce am scris eu, \u00eenc\u00e2t nu le mai trebuie nici o confirmare a acestei \u00een\u0163elegeri din partea mea. Au ap\u0103rut \u015fi persoane care fac aluzii vagi la o pretins\u0103 comunicare privat\u0103 cu mine, se declar\u0103 fo\u015fti discipoli sau chiar coautori. Dezmin\u0163irea este o ocupa\u0163ie lipsit\u0103 de sens. \u00cen primul r\u00e2nd, va ap\u0103rea, oricum, mai mult\u0103 minciun\u0103 dec\u00e2t este posibil a dezmin\u0163i, \u00een cel de-al doilea, nu vreau s\u0103-mi pierd timpul cu asta. Omul pentru care con\u0163inutul c\u0103r\u0163ii mele este actual se va descurca \u015fi singur ce \u015fi cum este \u00een realitate.<\/p>\n<p>Depun eforturi pentru ca num\u0103rul purt\u0103torilor tehnologiei practicii, purt\u0103torilor percep\u0163iilor revelatoare s\u0103 fie mai mare, ca ei s\u0103 poat\u0103 comp\u0103rea \u00een calitate de exper\u0163i, etaloane, consultan\u0163i pentru \u00eencep\u0103tori. Asemenea oameni apar, ei \u00ee\u015fi zic \u201eboturi\u201d, deoarece cuv\u00e2ntul \u201ebot\u201d se asociaz\u0103 cu acea tandre\u0163e \u015fi simpatie pe care ei o \u00eencearc\u0103 fa\u0163\u0103 de animale. Am \u00een\u0163elegerea clar\u0103 a criteriilor de separare a \u201eboturilor\u201d de \u201ene-boturi\u201d. Utiliz\u0103m, de asemenea, termenul \u201ecoad\u0103\u201d, numindu-l astfel pe omul care, practic\u00e2nd, \u00eenc\u0103 n-a atins acel grad de sinceritate, hot\u0103r\u00e2re, asiduitate, claritate, aspira\u0163ie spre PR, care fac ca botul s\u0103 fie bot, dar exist\u0103 temei de a se crede c\u0103 el poate atinge acest nivel.<\/p>\n<p>Dac\u0103 vrei s\u0103 precizezi, este oare omul care te consult\u0103 \u00een problemele practicii c\u0103ii directe bot, coad\u0103 sau el este, cel pu\u0163in, la acela\u015fi nivel de \u00eentristare cu tine, po\u0163i s\u0103 m\u0103 \u00eentrebi despre asta printr-un mesaj pe e-mail.<\/p>\n<p>Pe site-ul meu din Internet, <a href=\"http:\/\/www.bodhi.ru\/\">www.bodhi.ru<\/a>, este plasat\u0103 aceast\u0103 carte, ea se completeaz\u0103 \u00een regim de timp real. Tot acolo sunt plasate articolele altor practican\u0163i, cartea \u201eMaya\u201d \u015fi alte materiale. Dac\u0103 ai \u00eenceput practica \u015fi dore\u015fti s\u0103 comunici cu al\u0163i practican\u0163i, po\u0163i s\u0103 participi la o conferin\u0163\u0103 pe acela\u015fi site-u.<\/p>\n<p>Anterior, c\u00e2nd abia \u00eencepusem s\u0103 scriu cartea, presupuneam c\u0103, dac\u0103 voi folosi cuvintele utilizate de oameni, indiferent de faptul dac\u0103 aceste cuvinte au ori nu un sens determinat, \u00eemi va fi mai u\u015for s\u0103 aduc la con\u015ftiin\u0163a cititorului m\u0103car ceva, m\u0103car cu o claritate minim\u0103, pentru ca el, cel pu\u0163in, s\u0103 nu resping\u0103 din mers ideile care difer\u0103 prea tare de tot ce a auzit p\u00e2n\u0103 acum, iar pe urm\u0103 \u00eens\u0103\u015fi practica \u00eel va schimba \u00een a\u015fa m\u0103sur\u0103, \u00eenc\u00e2t el va purcede la purificarea g\u00e2ndirii sale. Acum mi-am schimbat modul de abordare, deoarece, \u00een primul r\u00e2nd, un asemenea stil confuz de expunere nu-mi place nici mie, \u00een cel de-al doilea, m-am convins c\u0103 apar, totu\u015fi, oameni cu practic\u0103 activ\u0103 \u015fi anume pentru ei vreau s\u0103 fac cartea c\u00e2t se poate de clar\u0103. Acum \u00eemi schimb cartea din temelie \u015fi \u00een\u0163eleg c\u0103 num\u0103rul cititorilor se va mic\u015fora, deoarece se va diminua posibilitatea de a avea impresii balonate \u00een timpul lecturii, \u00een schimb se va \u00eembun\u0103t\u0103\u0163i calitatea celor r\u0103ma\u015fi, or, tocmai acest lucru m\u0103 aranjeaz\u0103 cel mai mult, c\u0103ci nu-mi voi dispersa aten\u0163ia pentru cei care, \u00een realitate, nu vor s\u0103 pun\u0103 cap\u0103t suferin\u0163elor.<\/p>\n<p>Am hot\u0103r\u00e2t s\u0103 scriu c\u00e2teva c\u0103r\u0163i, fiecare av\u00e2nd o destina\u0163ie anume: \u201eCalea spre o con\u015ftiin\u0163\u0103 lucid\u0103\u201d va fi o instruc\u0163iunea seac\u0103, o c\u0103l\u0103uz\u0103. \u00cen \u201eMaia\u201d Sqwo \u015fi eu descriem \u00eentr-o forma artistic\u0103 via\u0163a practican\u0163ilor, ceea ce d\u0103 mai multe impresii dec\u00e2t instruc\u0163iuni concrete. \u201eMutarea cu tigrul\u201d are aceea\u015fi func\u0163ie, dar expunerea este mai potrivit\u0103 pentru adolescen\u0163i. Culegerea de povestiri despre emo\u0163iile sexuale este pentru cei care se intereseaz\u0103 mult de dezvoltarea sexual\u0103 \u015fi e tentat s\u0103-\u015fi aplice dorin\u0163ele sexuale drept unul din propulsoarele modific\u0103rii de sine. \u00cen aceast\u0103 culegere ei vor g\u0103si at\u00e2t recomand\u0103ri practice \u00een ceea ce prive\u015fte dezvoltarea sexualit\u0103\u0163ii, dep\u0103\u015firii \u00eentrist\u0103rilor prilejuite de sex sau relevate deosebit de pronun\u0163at \u00een via\u0163a intim\u0103, c\u00e2t \u015fi impresii. \u201eCulegerea de articole ale practican\u0163ilor\u201d este destinat\u0103 reflect\u0103rii unor probleme mai restr\u00e2nse pe care \u201eboturile\u201d le \u00eenfrunt\u0103 \u00een practica lor. \u015eirul poate fi continuat. De fapt, vreau s\u0103 edific o cultur\u0103 nou\u0103, o cultur\u0103 ce cre\u015fte din libertatea de emo\u0163ii negative, o cultur\u0103 a concep\u0163iilor ce-\u015fi trag r\u0103d\u0103cina din percep\u0163iile revelatoare, din dorin\u0163a bucuriilor anticipate.<\/p>\n<p>Redact\u00e2nd cartea, mi-am pus \u00eentrebarea: de c\u0103 m\u0103 adresez c\u0103tre cititorul-b\u0103rbat? Scriu \u201edac\u0103 e\u015fti obsedat de dorin\u0163a\u201d, dar nu \u201edac\u0103 e\u015fti obsedat\u0103 de dorin\u0163a\u201d? A\u015fa se obi\u015fnuie\u015fte, totu\u015fi, experien\u0163a arat\u0103 c\u0103 PCD o fac activ \u015fi sincer mai mult fetele. Nu \u015ftiu prin ce se explic\u0103 acest fapt. Poate, rolul social impus b\u0103rba\u0163ilor, concep\u0163iile \u015fi EN, determinate de el, sunt cu mult mai nocive dec\u00e2t \u00een cazul fetelor? B\u0103rbatul e un om cu un sentiment incredibil al propriei importan\u0163e, cu o vanitate aflat\u0103 mai c\u0103 nu la nivel de manie a grandorii, cu agresivitate \u015fi obtuzitate pronun\u0163ate ce decurg din asta. (\u201eProstia\u201d este lipsa abilit\u0103\u0163ilor de munc\u0103 intelectual\u0103, iar \u201eobtuzitatea\u201d este incapacitatea de a judeca clar \u015fi consecvent din cauza emo\u0163iilor negative, din aceast\u0103 cauz\u0103, de regul\u0103, chiar \u015fi intelectualii avansa\u0163i sunt obtuzi prin excelen\u0163\u0103). Fetele, din contra, sufer\u0103 mai des de un complex al inferiorit\u0103\u0163ii, de mil\u0103 pentru sine, ne\u00eencredere, ceea ce, luat \u00een ansamblu, este, totu\u015fi, o povar\u0103 mai pu\u0163in ucig\u0103toare. A\u015fa sau altfel, am decis s\u0103 m\u0103 adresez c\u0103tre cititoare, nu c\u0103tre cititor, \u00eentruc\u00e2t nu v\u0103d temeiul pentru a urma stereotipul creat. Nu m\u0103 \u00eendoiesc c\u0103 acest fapt va trezi un mare dispre\u0163 al b\u0103rba\u0163ilor, deoarece, oric\u00e2t de ridicol ar fi acest lucru, ei aproape to\u0163i se consider\u0103 \u201eavansa\u0163i\u201d \u015fi \u201ede\u015ftep\u0163i\u201d, \u00een timp ce fetele sunt pentru ei ceva de m\u00e2na a doua.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u00cemi spune Bodhi. Aceast\u0103 carte este o c\u0103l\u0103uz\u0103 practic\u0103, \u00een ea sunt expuse metode, urmarea sincer\u0103 \u015fi perseverent\u0103 a c\u0103rora \u00eel va aduce pe orice om, pe calea cea mai scurt\u0103 \u015fi cea mai clar\u0103, la starea de a fi liber de suferin\u0163e (emo\u0163ii negative, concep\u0163ii false, dorin\u0163e mecanice, senza\u0163ii nepl\u0103cute), la \u00eenceputul unei vie\u0163i [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":4,"featured_media":0,"parent":15243,"menu_order":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","template":"","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":""},"class_list":["post-15245","page","type-page","status-publish","hentry"],"acf":[],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v27.2 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/product\/yoast-seo-wordpress\/ -->\n<title>Prefa\u0163\u0103 - Selection of Attractive States<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/bodhi.name\/ro\/home\/selectie-2005-calea-spre-o-constiinta-lucida\/prefata\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"ro_RO\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"Prefa\u0163\u0103 - Selection of Attractive States\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"\u00cemi spune Bodhi. 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